Archive - Holding Space

Reclaiming Attention

An unintentional then/now story

May 22 •

April 2025

Protecting Our Squishy Human Selves

A lesson from reality dating shows

Apr 11 •

March 2025

For Lent, I'm Giving Up the War

What if radical compassion for self leads to radical compassion for the other?

Mar 11 •

The Ebb and Flow of Reciprocity

Sometimes coping and healing and growth are communal

Mar 3 •

February 2025

Confessions of a Single Mom

How dating is bringing up some deep wounds

Feb 14 •

November 2024

Traversing the Messy Middle

I get to choose how I will show up, even when I can’t see the ending.

Nov 9, 2024 •

October 2024

Caught in a Thought Storm

Learning to move from my head into my body

Oct 17, 2024 •

There's No Way Around the Yuck...

...only through it.

Oct 10, 2024 •

September 2024

What if Divorce Is the Most Loving Thing to Do?

Sometimes successful marriages still end.

Sep 23, 2024 •

May 2024

Habits Are Not Forever

Learning to worry less about creating 'bad' habits

May 17, 2024 •

April 2024

What's Alive Inside You?

The longing to be visible, to be witnessed, to be held

Apr 12, 2024 •

The Illusion of the Perfect Parent

Seeking perfection as a coping mechanism

Apr 7, 2024 •

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